Mattie Brahen, Briefly Remembered

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Today, I attended the memorial service for Mattie Brahen, author and the wife of Darrell Schweitzer. Darrell was of course devastated. He wrote a memorial for Mattie and very wisely had the funeral parlor director read it for him, rather than attempt it himself and risk breaking down in public.

The parlor was filled with friends and family. Several came forward to speak. And then it was over. 

At times like these, I feel the loss of Gardner Dozois most acutely. I've heard him speak at several funerals and he had the gift of summing up a life in a handful of words, always ending with, "You could do worse."

Thinking about Mattie, and Darrell, and Gardner afterwords, I speculated about what Gardner might have said were he there. Something, I think, along the lines of;

She read the books she loved. She wrote the books she loved. She sang the songs she loved. She loved the people she loved. You could do worse.

And I honestly don't see how you could do better.

Above: I swiped Mattie's picture from her Facebook page. I honestly don't think she'd have minded.

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